Monday, June 22, 2009

Matt Huston's Ex Squared System - Dirty Psychological Tricks or Simply What Women Have Been Doing For Centuries?

I came across a relationship book that is very different than many of the others out there right now and I felt the need to comment on it. My views my not be as popular with the ladies as I might wish but I feel the need to be truthful and honest so here goes….

The book is called “The Ex Squared System” and it is written my Matt Huston, who has been nicknamed “The Exgirlfriend Guru.” Matt’s book and accompanying materials, including the “Train Your Girlfriend Manual” have caused quite a stir for a few reasons.

First, the “Ex Squared System” claims to allow you to win your girlfriend back in record time by the use of “dirty psychological tricks.” I know that I was a bit taken back by this and pondered first the ethics of using such information in a supposed loving relationship. For me the thought of intentionally pushing a woman’s psychological hot buttons in an attempt to influence her romantically just seemed wrong.

Second, the effectiveness of The Ex Squared System has been documented as being phenomenal and in a study of men that used Matt Huston’s book to attempt to win back a girlfriend the success rate was seen to be over 80 percent.

So, we can see that there is no doubt that this book is a very effective tool in repairing a relationship that has gone awry. The problem remains and the controversy arises when people feel that it is wrong or unethical to use female psychology when trying to win back a girlfriend.

The fact is, and this is where the women who might be reading this article are going to get upset…women have been using tactics like this long before Matt Huston ever wrote The Ex Squared System. Women have also been “training” men for as long as there has been marriage so a book about “How to Train Your Girlfriend” is nothing new.

As a matter of fact, the ways in which women “train” their husbands or boyfriends is a popular topic that women share with each other all the time….how to get your man to do this or that…how to get him to take the trash out….how to get him to buy you flowers…how to get him to commit to a relationship. This is nothing new people!

So my question to you is, why is it suddenly unethical or “wrong” for men to start to use the same tactics that woman have been using for generations to gain some control in a relationship? Why is it ok for a woman to flirt and tease a man in order to get him to commit in a relationship while it is suddenly unethical and wrong for a man to do the same? Why can a woman use another man to make her ex jealous in an attempt to lure him back but it is wrong for a man to do anything even approaching such tactics and use such psychological tricks?

The simple truth is that men just don’t play games like this and it is new to them. Men, for the most part are “what you see is what you get” but women are master of psychological manipulation and it is accepted by our society…but perhaps not for any longer!

The fact is that what is good for the gander is good for the goose. The fact is that women have been using dirty psychological tricks long before Matt Huston was ever even born but I can feel the tide changing…

Check out Matt Huston’s Ex Squared System in more detail at http://www.consumerproductsoverview.com/recommends/exsquaredsystem and to compare it against other relationship books on the market go to http://www.consumerproductsoverview.com

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